The new LGBT family-friendly policy was inspired by the total creeps at Jackson Memorial Hospital in Miami, Florida. The hospital refused to let a woman (who had power of attorney documents) visit her dying partner of 17 years. The couple's (Janice Langbehn and Lisa Pond) 4 children were also barred. Their mother died alone. I think I'd rather die on the sidewalk than in such a cruel and soulless hospital. Obama called the surviving partner to tell her he was inspired by her sad story to issue the memorandum. There are a lot of questions about the actual enforcement of this directive when up against the kind of monsters found at Jackson Memorial in Miami. See:
Pam Spaulding: Breaking: Presidential memo boosts hospital rights of LGBT partners and their families
Update: Jackson Memorial Inhumane Hospital, in Miami Florida, has apparently changed its cruel policy:
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